brand whores and haters

OK friends, it is no secret at all that I am a brand whore. I freely admit to it. I like nice things. I see no problem with spending more than $100 on a pair of shoes or $1000 for a fabulous bag. If you can afford it, why the heck not?

Now, I do not make this kind of money (yet), but I am very blessed to have parents who are willing to spend their hard-earned money on these luxuries, and I get to enjoy that. And yes, I suppose that does make me kind of spoiled... but I am never demanding. In fact, I don't even ask for most of the lovely things that I receive. I enjoy and appreciate everything I have, but I can live without it.

What I don't get, though, is these people who make snap judgments. They (most often guys for some reason. Maybe girls just appreciate these things more?) will take one look at the bag I'm carrying or the phone I have and just automatically assume that I'm this stuck up princess who only knows how to spends all of daddy's money.
One time I was leaving school to go home and this guy said "oh, are you gonna drive your Mercedes back to your $1 million mansion now?" Seriously, wtf? This guy barely even knew me. And for the record, I was on my way to the bus stop. I don't know where he comes off making these assumptions when I never said or did anything to justify them. It's not like I'm waving money in front of him going "haha, look what I have and you don't!"

Yes, I may have a designer bag on my shoulder, but that doesn't mean I think I'm better than anyone else or that I feel like that entitles me to anything. And if anything, the person who is making these rude comments is really the one who is being a snob. If you're going to hate on someone, then at least do it because of how they act, not because of what they have.

S-T-O-P!

My latest peeve is when people spell in their songs. For example:

• "This shit is bananas, b-a-n-a-n-a-s"
• repeat offender F to the E-R-G the I the E with "g-l-a-m-o-r-o-u-s, yea"
  
• "can you fix my h-e-a-r-t, cuz it's d-a-m-a-g-e-d"
• "p-h-a-t phat, baby girl I didn't know you could get down like that"
  
• and that annoying as hell song that they only play on x104 (thank goodness) about being "i-n-d-e-p-e-n-d-e-n-t"

even our beloved Mimi* is guilty, looking for some "c-r-u-i-s-e control"


This all started with a farmer and his dog. B-i-n-g-o.

I will admit I laughed at this though







*E=MC^2 is a great album. Anything where Mariah rhymes "drama" with "baby mama" is fantastic stuff.